My thoughts on Episode 5…
After the dramatic showdown between Mike and his father Tony in the previous episode (my ADHD brain has at last memorised his name!!) I was expecting their conflict to continue in this episode, so I was surprised that Tony barely featured in this one. Although I was glad to see that he hadn’t broken his leg!!
Instead, there was a deeper dive into another character- the little sister, Maggie. After the deeper exploration of Mike’s character last episode, I’m guessing Nikki is going to be next (she mentioned missing her Dad, but I don’t know whether he is dead, working far away, or if Nikki’s parents are separated/divorced?).
Anyway, when Maggie’s crush on Mike was revealed in the previous episode, I initially felt it was a cringey storyline, with Maggie being way too young for Mike, and ridiculously thinking he’d be interested in her in that way!! But, in this episode when they continued the storyline, I found myself feeling a LOT more sympathy for Maggie.
At 9 years old, she was two years younger than me when I had my first crush, and I remembered how intense my feelings were when it happened to me!

And I also know that you don’t consciously choose who your first crush will be- it just happens to you, and all of a sudden you have these weird new feelings you’ve never experienced before… and you do become prone to thinking from your heart, rather than your head!!

So instead of feeling embarrassed for Maggie, I began to feel more empathy for her situation.
Maggie in many ways is mature for her age- her knowledge of science and technology, and having romantic feelings so young- and she also possesses impressive gifts and talents, like her amazing memory and creative skills. And she is now going through a phase of her life in which her starting-to-feel-grown-up feelings are clashing with the parts of her personality that are still very, very childish- like throwing a tantrum and jealously destroying the card and flowers Mike had bought for Nikki, and shouting “I HATE YOU, I HATE YOU!!” and “I WISH YOU WERE DEAD!!”.
And I know from experience that when puberty hits and new hormone surges kick in, this internal turmoil will only get worse for her.
When girls go through physical changes, especially starting periods, we in many ways start to look more like adults and start to have adult emotions and experiences, but the truth is, our brains still won’t have fully finished developing into adult brains until several years after puberty!!
It’s fine once things catch up and fall into balance and our bodies and brains get used to the new hormones and feelings…The mood swings ease off and, with the perspective of age, things start to feel A LOT less dramatic…

but unfortunately it’s a long process!!
So I feel sorry for girls like Maggie who start to feel adult feelings at an extra early age, because it makes the process even longer and more emotionally painful for them. I think the later the process starts and the longer you can enjoy being a kid, the better!!
I think it would have been wonderful if, overnight, at the moment I felt ready for it, I could have gone straight from being a little girl to being an adult woman with autonomy, confidence and tattoos, and skipped the awkward in between phase with embarrassing experiences, greasy hair and spots!!

But the transition phase (male or female) is a rite of passage everyone has to go through, and the experiences we have during that time and the mistakes we make help us learn and grow in preparation for adult life.
So I think it’s a good thing when TV series show the difficult parts of growing up, as they did with this storyline, rather than presenting a glossy version of childhood and adolescence that real kids can’t relate to.
And although wrecking Mike’s card and flowers for Nikki was bratty and spiteful of Maggie, I could understand the reasons for her comically childish explosion of rage in that moment. Not only the from the heart-crushing disappointment that Mike fancied Nikki (it was bad enough he fancied someone else, but of all people, HER SISTER!!) but also because Maggie had put so much love and effort into her home made Valentine’s Card for Mike, which went unappreciated…well, he DID appreciate the card itself, but he didn’t appreciate Maggie as the artist or the poet, and Nikki (unintentionally) took the credit for Maggie’s efforts!!
I think at Maggie’s age, she is still learning the harsh truth that unlike in cartoons for children, that depict love in a fairytale way and where people who are kind, do good things and work hard usually get rewarded for it, real life doesn’t work that way. Love is often unreciprocated, and the efforts we make to please others or to win their love may fail.
It was a great aerial shot at the end of the episode when Search And Rescue found the truck and the boy waving for help. The landscape of Australia is breathtakingly beautiful to behold, but at the same time, I have a great respect for the how dangerous those remote areas can be if something goes wrong!!
But it would have been nice to have a scene at the end confirming that the boy’s father was going to be OK. I imagined he must have been badly hurt if he was unable to make a distress call himself, and a few days passed before him and his son were found.
If I could have changed anything about the episode, I would have added a scene at the end where Maggie gets a phone call from the boy afterwards, thanking her for saving his father’s life, and Maggie and the boy would then stay in touch and have a long distance friendship. I think that after the disappointment of her unrequited crush, it would be good for Maggie to have a friend her own age. She has plenty of time to have more serious romantic relationships when she gets older!
